Group Sex, Gangbangs and Bukkake

Let's face it guys: unless you have the stamina of an ox and balls like diving-bells, you simply don't have what it takes to fully satisfy a horny woman who is firing on all cylinders. She can take ten like you and still be ready for more, whilst you are struggling to stiffen again after just a handful of fucks. Nature organised it that way and it's crazy to pretend otherwise. Run with it, enjoy it and be pleased that the world is such an interesting place.

But for the girls, it is much harder - and that's why you usually find it in an unusual context, often where the boyfriend/husband/lover gets off on seeing his partner submit to a group and have all her holes filled, ending up covered in semen. He might be doing this simply because he enjoys it, it might be a special treat for her, it might be a way of supplementing income (I know a lot of girls who like doing this but can get some pin-money for it too) or he might be doing it as a way of asserting his power over her. The reasons why aren't too important, but the fun and enjoyment it gives certainly is. It's not hard for such a guy to organise a group session for his girl if he looks around, makes some enquiries and then puts the arrangements in place. For the single girl, or one who is attached but wants an outlet and her partner wouldn't like it, what can she do? Society will frown on her if word gets out or it could cause serious problems with existing relationships. Discretion and safety is very important, so I will talk about that in a section below. First, let's enjoy exploring what forms the pleasure might take.

Swinging Parties

Television these days is getting worse and worse, organised sport is expensive and often unappealing, drinking yourself into oblivion is losing its attraction, so what can you do? Join a swingers' club of course and make a whole new bunch of friends who enjoy swapping, sharing and fucking. Until you get to know the people who enjoy swinging you will have no idea what a popular pastime it is and what (in general) a nice, friendly and relaxed group they tend to be. Swinging encompasses people from all walks of life and you will find just about every kind and type of person involved.

There are clubs and groups to suit everyone. Some are friendly drinks parties where you would hardly know that it wasn't a friendly meeting of somethign like a car owners' club or a caravanning group until you realise that there is a bowl full of condoms on the table and the woman standing next to you has uncovered her breasts and is starting to stroke your cock. Others are overtly fetishistic or kinky, or may stage 'performances' as part of the activities. There is no set rule and you have to find a group that suits you.

The problem with all swinging groups is the number of single males who are always trying to get a quick fuck and give nothing back in return. Take your own female along with you, or girls, go as a couple and you will be made most welcome.

The single thing that has struck me about swinging clubs is the warm and welcoming atmosphere - so go along prepared for a good time, don't drink too much (people's behaviour nearly always deteriorates with drink) and relax. Don't get jealous if your partner gets a lot of attention, enjoy it instead and think what a good time she is having. For most girls it's a heaven-sent opportunity to get laid several times but still go home with someone they really like.

How do you find a swinging club? Avoiding them is the difficult thing! There will be adverts in contact magazines, hundreds of websites are dedicated to it and you will find that once you take the time and do your homework it's easy to get invited. Just remember that everyone there was as nervous as you are the first time they went and don't expect every party to be the same, or all the groups to be alike. Join in and have fun.

If anyone asks for money other than to cover drinks and maybe room hire, then you have got mixed up with a commercial venture and that may not be what you want. The best parties I have been to are just groups of like-minded people enjoying sex with each other. Because of the single-male problem I am also cautious about groups that say they welcome them - not all are bogus but if you really do just want to swing, then it's an unusual sign and deserves investigation.

Gangbangs

Of course there are million guys gagging to get involved in a gangbang with a girl whose body is firm and trim and who looks like an angel. Inexperienced girls hope that they are about to have a session with a bunch of gorgeous athletes who can pound away inside her for hours. Well, both are going to be disappointed. Most of us are normal people, males and female alike, we have our weaknesses, not all of us look like Greek Gods or have bodies that ripple with muscles. In other words, expect your average gangbang to have a mixture of what it takes to make up the world, play your part, enjoy it and be grateful.

As with every sexual activity hygiene is important. If you are going to a gangbang, dress well, shower and clean up, wash your genitals carefully, rinse off all the soap, dry and go out for a good time. If it's your first time remember, boys, that you are NOT number one, the girl is. Your job is to make sure that she is used to perfection and most of the time it's about her pleasure or that of her Master/owner if it's a slave-fuck (the majority are not). Take your cue from the others and if you aren't experienced, introduce yourself to the MC first and get some initial advice on what's expected. And for God's sake, when it's time to go home, get dressed and leave. People who hang around expecting to get the girl's phone number or think they have fallen in love with her are not only pathetic, they have totally lost the plot and won't get invited back.

Arranging a gangbang is not at all easy. Most people think that getting the willing girl(s) is the hard part but in fact it's not. Getting hold of a group of stable, reliable, discreet men who know how to behave and can get a good erection in front of others is the tricky bit. The MC needs to make the arrangements either at a hotel or private place, organise the attendees (lots of first time men are fantasists who become no-shows, 'timewasters' as they are usually called), arrange for refreshments, have the girl(s) prepared and then make sure that everyone behaves, condoms are used for all physical contact apart from blowjobs (if agreed in advance) and generally see to the smooth running. Now how many people do you know like that? Exactly: good gangbang organisation is an artform and they don't just come together.

Most well-established gangbang groups have been going for a while now and tend not to need either new males unless they come highly recommended, nor, surprisingly do they lack willing female participation. You will find quite a lot of more public groups around who are not in it just for pleasure. These will usually be based around one or more semi-professional or full-time working girls (i.e. you pay them for it) and commonly arrange by the lover of husband of one or more of them. For a single male who wants to get into the gangbang scene this is a great way in. You can learn the ropes, the cost won't be prohibitive and you are unlikely to get ripped off unless you are really dumb.

Single girls or couples are usually made very welcome in the semi-pro groups too, but of course you can't control who will be there or what is done with the photos (many of the groups have their own websites where they sell their videos and photos, subsidising the parties).

Bukkake Facial Parties

Now go up and read what I said about organising gangbangs - yes, organising a proper bukkake/facial event is even harder. The MC rôle is crucial to sucess. It can be done, but the problem with no-show men is much worse (they won't be getting to fuck the girl), although there are plenty of willing females who will either do it for love or money. Because of the difficulty of making the arrangement, most talented organisers who aren't in it for the money will be found on the gangbang circuit. The most successful bukkake events tend to be more professionally arranged and there will inevitably be some cost associated with it.

From time to time I arrange amateur events which are a bit more low-key (only 10-15 guys per girl) and they are nearly always bukkake followed by gangbang sessions because it's much easier to get the guys to come along if they know that they will get a fuck too. Those sessions will have one chosen bukkake girl and probably one or two others who are there just for the gangbang part.

How do I get Involved

Girls often find it very difficult. They may be in a relationship and want to experience this as a piece of extra-curricular activity. Nearly all, no matter how much they love the idea, have a severe problem with discretion and secrecy, since society has a stupid and prejudiced attitude to girls who love cock and cum. Joining in at the semi-professional events may help, but can you be sure that you won't meet your boss or next-door neighbour at one? As the party girl, the centre of attention, you can't perform the MC rôle yourself so you will need someone whom you trust well and have them do it for you.

If your boyfriend or lover will encourage you and support you then of course you can get assistance that way. Your partner can contact the gangbang groups by doing some research through swinger groups or websites and you will find that a couple is usually able to get an introduction moderately quickly. Bi or lesbian girls will have the same experience.

The really hard part is if you are a single or married professional woman who desperately wants to get an introduction but doesn't know a way in. Your problem will be to find a trusted intermediary. It can be done - if you are stuck get in touch with me and I'll see what I can arrange - but take it steady, don't rush into it and build trust slowly, whichever approach you take. And of course, don't back out! It can be nerve-wracking to have your first group fuck but nearly every girl who has done it comes back for more once she has tried it! If you are bisexual and want to contact other bi females who are interested in group fun, you could try putting your photos on the bi girl group contact page.

For some pictures to get you thinking, take a look at the image of the day.

If the idea of this turns you on but you are scared of taking the first step, see what 'B' has to say:

I am a 25 yo woman in the (deleted) area. I have been into gangbang for about 2 years. I wish I had read your page when I first started, as I was single and had to figure it all out by myself. I really like your description of why women get into gangbang. This is the first time I have seen a man acknowledge the limitations of one man's ability to totally satisfy a woman.

I first got interested in gangbang in college. I was actually pretty conservative then. I was in Mexico during spring break partying with alot of kids my age. During one party I got really drunk and I ended up in a hotel room with a bunch of guys and I spent several hours sucking their cocks and getting fucked. I had never done anything like this and I don't think I would have done this if I hadn't been so drunk and if I hadn't been so far away from anyone I knew. It also helped that I thought that given the situation I wasn't really going to have much choice in what happened anyway. At first I was pretty nervous but after I relaxed I ended up really enjoying myself. I didn't even come, and I have a hard time describing it. But when I started sucking my third or fourth cock I started feeling totally blissed out, like I felt really free for the first time in my life, or like for the first time I was just being myself. I didn't tell anyone about this experience for along time but it really affected me because after that I started fantasizing about having sex with more than one guy all the time. It became somewhat of an obsession. I would read stories about gangbang on the net and I even watched gangbang DVD's.

Eventually I decided I would have to do something about this. I actually thought that if I tried it I would get it out of my system and move on. I didn't think I would get addicted. I had not idea how to go about it. I found a group in my area through the internet, but I didn't trust them because they had a commercial bent. They filmed sessions and sold them through their website. So I decided to arrange sessions on my own. I am 25 and fit, so I had no trouble attracting men through the internet. I started by getting together with men individually to get used to having sex with people I don't know, and gradually worked my way up. I now have sessions on a regular basis with anywhere from 2 to 8 guys. As soon as I started I was hooked. I love the male attention and the sheer physical pleasure. Before gangbang I had never orgasmed except with clitoral stimulation, but I discovered that I could come vaginally, it just takes more banging than one guy can provide.

Practically, things have gone pretty well. I set ground rules and don't allow drinking except for beer. The guys are pretty well behaved and when one has gotten out of hand the others tend to keep him in check. There are a couple of practical problems I have encountered and I wonder if you have any suggestions. First, the issue of venue. I have been doing this out of my house, which in many ways is ideal: private, comfortable, familiar. A couple of guys, however, started coming around wanting sex whenever they felt like it. One I was able to get rid of, but the other is aggressive and I have had to accomodate him. This is manageable but I can see that I can't keep asking strange men to my house. What other options are there for venues? I have a hard time imagining doing this in a hotel: noise, all those men coming to one room, etc. The other issue is protection. I do not want to get aids so a ground rule is condoms. We always start out that way, the problem is that once we get going some men will dispense with them. I think that some men actually want to deposit their cum inside of me and once I get excited I am usually agreeable to anything. To be honest I also get the urge to have cum deposited inside of me. I think this is natural since biologically that is the whole point of sex. I really enjoy the feeling of having alot of sperm in my rectum or pussy after a good session, but I regret it afterwards. Any suggestions?

B

Here is a girl called Angel (you can see more of her here) having fun:

Angel	Angel	Angel	Angel	Angel
Angel	Angel

Home